You cannot have the success without the failures.   Any experience, even failure, can be transformed into something of value.  Everything depends on the way you look at things.

What are stumbling blocks and defeat before you can be stepping stones to victory if you remain determined.

In all of your adversities lies the seeds of equivalent advantages.  In every defeat there is a lesson showing you how to win the next time.

View your challenges as opportunities.  When it's dark enough you can see the stars.