The keys to your universe lie with the choices you make. You don't have to buy from anyone or work at any particular job. You don't have to participate in any given relationship. You can choose.
The choice is always yours. You hold the tiller. You steer the course you choose in the direction of where you want to be today, tomorrow, or in a distant time to come.
You can at any time decide to alter the course of your life. No one can ever take that away from you.