Your mind is your true essence. How things look on the outside of you always depends on how things are on the inside of you.
Your thoughts have brought you to where you are today. Your actions always mirror your thoughts. Take a good look at where you are and what you're doing, and you can understand what you've been thinking.
Your behavior is the perpetual revealing of yourself. What you do, tells everyone who and what you are.
Change your thoughts and you can change your position in life. You can start this process at any time. Why not start today?